Awwwww....We Are Cute! Too Bad My Boyfriend is a Jerk!
Here is a pic I just received from when Stefan and I went to opening day at the Del Mar race track. AWWWWWWWW....Look how cute we are! Too bad Stefan is being a selfish little prick this weekend...1st of all I had mentioned to Stefan that I wanted to go to see my moms bastard kittens this weekend, but he eluded to the fact that it would be inconvenient for him since he is leaving for a month long surf trip to Indo on Tuesday and has to pack, clean, shop, etc. SO, I wrote it off since Stefan wanted to get stuff done and hang out with me all weekend. Carrie and Deza also invited me to go to Vegas this weekend, but again, I turned it down since Stefan is leaving and we wanted to spend time together. SO, here is how are super awesome weekend has gone so far:
FRIDAY: Stefan says he is taking off work early and maybe able to come over before 4pm. I call him around noonish and he says he's not going to make it until "7ish" (He had to take his sales guys out for drinks...). That's fine. I had work to do and that will be good timing to go get sushi and sake. Well, "7ish" ended up being 9:10pm, and sushi is closed. We ate Italian food and Stefan was asleep by 10:30pm. WoW! An hour worth of quality time! Fun!
SATURDAY: We go shopping for surf-trip stuff and Stefan asks me were I want to eat. I say bagels, we start driving to bagels and Stefan decides that it is too far and drives back to where we started. (This might sound petty, but Stefan always asks me what I want to do, I make a decision and then he decides to do the opposite. ALWAYS!). We eat, go home, agree that I will come down to his house for dinner and Stefan goes home at 2pm-ish. From 3pm - 6:30pm I try to call twice and send two text messages to Stefan trying to figure out when I was coming over. By the time he calls back, it's going to be too late for me to come over for dinner. I planned to go to the gym on the way down and by the time I worked out, it would be after 9pm, which means Stefan would be ready for bed (he gets up early and goes to bed early). After arguing about it for a while, he suggested that I just come down and we could go running together, which was really sweet (since he hates running), but I was too pissed off to come to any agreement at that point so I said, "I'll make a decision and call you back", to which he replies, "No, why don't you just go to the gym". SO, I hung up the phone and went to the gym. (enter random text message drama here) And now, here I am, alone on our "lets spend as much time as possible together" weekend.
The thing that is so stupid is that we have an AWESOME relationship and we are a perfect pair. The ONLY thing we fight about is not being able to see each other more often and the 40 minute commute to each others houses. Is that not stupid?! But we are at a stalemate because he does want to move farther from Downtown and I don't want to move too much closer to Downtown.
Sigh.
Rambled by Vicious Summer @ 12:00 AM
7 Shenanigans:
The solution seems simple enough. You must kill him and bury him in your back yard. Geez... do I have to spell everything out for you! ;)
I thought about it, but then who am I supposed to make out with?! Stefan is just too hot to kill ;) (and he is actually really really really good to me 95% of the time)
Bling's idea does seem to be the right answer.
You should actually move FURTHER from downtown... aproximately 2,750 miles east. ;)
LOL Now *that* is both good advice AND good timing... how about hiring Lever Inc. Cleaning Services? ;)
Who are you going to make out with? GEEZ, it's the summer time (no pun intended). You can make out with whoever you want!!! You only need to "Grab Up" when winter starts coming. Seeing as you live in the land of perpetual sunshine, well... I think you know what you have to do :)
oh boy i just feel like i have been reading about MY life!!!
my other half and i also live 40mins apart and both work full time, me in IT, him in retail, so i get weekends off, but he may be working.. gah!! >< so frustrating..
to make matters worse, lately i have been studying part time as well so seriously we hardly see each other, but thank God there have been an unusual number of parties so far, so we have got to spend some time.. but im soo tired all the time.
the only thing WE fight about is not seeing each other more often- and other fights related to that very cause- especially because i hate it that he always avoids altercations by letting things slide, which i hate! i'd rather have an argument and get something resolved! or at least express my erratic emotions!
but i guess it's just training for when i go to live in japan next year... hmm instead of seeing each other on average 4 times a month, it will be a record of once, maybe twice in 12 months!
still he doesn't want to break up or put the relationship on hold, so hey, i'll just keep myself uber-busy in japan and everything will be fine.
so honey, i GUARANTEE that you see your man more often than i see mine- but you've gotta work out if you can deal. i go in stages.. i have times where im fiercely independent, but other times when im horribly needy..- i hate those times.
my man also hates that i dont make decisions, but the reason is because he wont do things he doesnt like, and i can't take the rejection when he makes his protest known- men are such whiners!
hmm in conclusion men suck. i think you know what i mean.
My boyfriend is a whiner too! How come boys just don't grow up? He just doesn't understand that it is us women who have a right to erratic emotions, not MEN!!! When things go well for him, he's the average guy, but if things are not to his likings, he sulks and suddenly became so in touch with his inner feelings and he likes to say that his feelings got hurt, etc, and we both end up arguing.
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